You may have noticed that I have not posted in about a week or so. You want to know why? I have writers block. Yes, I admit it, it's true. But I figure that this is a learning process, and if I write about it, I could help other bloggers who have felt or are feeling this way.
My wonderful significant other thinks I have wrtier's block because I learned that my favorite horse died. For those of you that don't know this, I am an avid equestrian, and rode competitively for about 10 years. I had a horse named Larry, and he was amazing. The first time I showed him he bucked me off, and the last time I showed him we ended up 9th at the World Championship Show. I was fortunate to be one of the people who owned him, and I learned so much from him, but one of the most important things I learned was to believe in myself, and that if I put my focus and energy on something, and worked really hard, I could accomplish some pretty big things. As I think about it now, there are so many things that I learned while riding that can be applied to blogging:
1. Be patient with yourself. You will have good days when you are on, and other days where you will have to push yourself to take action. It's ok, just learn to enjoy the good days, and be kind to yourself when you feel a bit stuck.
2. Being good at something takes hard work. There is no such thing as an overnight success. If you really look at successful people, they have been working hard behind the scenes and just make it look easy.
3. Enjoy the process, not the outcome. As a blogger, it is better to focus on the process of writing great content, not trying to be famous. You never really know what is going to create a buzz, so you just have to be consistent and dedicated. The results will come if you keep at it.
4. Recovery is the key. There will be times when you get off track, make mistakes and get frustrated. So what? Get back on track and keep going.
5. Relax, smile and have fun. After hours of nit-picking from my horse trainer about keeping my hands and legs still, the advice she would give me right before I would enter the show ring was to Relax, smile and have fun. And you know what? It worked.
I am Great-Full for having so many wonderful Larry experiences, and know that so much of what I do now is because of what I accomplished with him. There were times that he would help me and bail me out of making a mistake, and look, he got me out of my writing slump. Thanks Larry, it's nice to know your spirit is still around....